Tuesday, April 9, 2013

DAN SAVAGE And Effin' Memphis, Together At Last! (Exclusive Interviews!)

Hey everybody, Evan here. In case you didn't know, world-renowned sex-advice-giver and creator of the It Gets Better project for LGBT youth, will be speaking tonight at the University of Memphis. Rose Theatre. 7 PM.

Dan and I had lunch today at the wonderful Rizzo's Diner, and afterward we had a little talk about the It Gets Better project, what it's like to be a gay kid in 2013, what it takes to take a city like Memphis to the next level and also, some weird part about 50 Shades of Grey at the end.

Watch, share and allathat, and then show up in a couple hours at the University of Memphis!


Thursday, April 4, 2013

45 Years On...


And we're still learning the lessons.

Sometimes you see a piece of journalism so masterful and beautiful that you simply want to let it stand on its own. Marc Perrusquia's gorgeous photo essay in today's Commercial Appeal, “Leading Up To six:01 - Martin Luther King, Jr.: The Last 32 Hours” is just that. Please take a few minutes to read the story, whether you know it like the back of your hand or there are details missing in your conception of what happened on April 4, 1968. Sometimes I feel like this city's history is always in the air -- other times I feel like many of us do our best to ignore it, or worse, are apathetic to it.

In my day job, I'm the Associate Director of a national gay rights organization called Truth Wins Out, and I wrote about this day there a little bit earlier, ending my piece with these words:

We all have a responsibility to each other to listen, to understand, to tell others the stories, to ensure that we have each others’ backs when it comes to eradicating all injustice. 
Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. would demand nothing less.

I think the entire city of Memphis would benefit from doing just that. Learn the stories, remember the stories, tell the stories, and move forward together.

Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Drinkin' For A Cause!

Hey, Memphis! So, we are finally getting around to building our Ways to GIVE BACK section, which will highlight everything from drinky social events where your money will go to great causes, to events where you'll actually get your hands dirty doing the work of giving back to people in need in this city.

For the moment, though, here are three really low impact things you can do both tomorrow night and Friday, all of which benefit great organizations and assets to our community. Show up at one of these!

Thursday, March 28 

Pop-Up Happy Hour for Friends for Life at Local on the Square (2126 Madison Avenue). Stop by Local at 5:30 and have a cocktail or three, while supporting and learning more about the important work of Friends for Life!

Party For The Park! 6:00 at the Shelby Farms Park (500 North Pine Lake Drive). $15 cover gets you food, drink, dessert from YoLo and a DJ, all going to help support the great local resource that is the Shelby Farms Park!

Friday, March 29

Lend a hand to start an anti-domestic violence fund at the Memphis Gay & Lesbian Community Center by showing up at Spectrum (616 Marshall) at 7:30 PM. Performances and important messages from community leaders and the Memphis Police Department for a mere $5 donation! More info here.

Start checking the "giving back" tab above on a regular basis for fun new ways to be a part of the solution to the many problems facing Memphis. Sometimes all it takes is a little forethought. For instance, if you were planning to do Happy Hour tomorrow night anyway, now you know that if you do it at Local on the Square, it'll help people! OMG ISN'T THAT EASY?

To get your event listed, e-mail us at effinmemphis at gmail dot com or shoot us a note on our Facebook page.

Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Finally, A Fuzzy Face Hair Group For A Good Cause!

by Sami Harvey

Nothing screams masculinity! more than having a plot of furry real estate on your face. From Zeus’ colossal beard to Mark Twain’s burly mustache, historically speaking, the facial hair absolutely makes the man. And you know what else beards make? They make the ladies go cuh-razy.

So if you’ve been looking to increase your manliness and decrease your loneliness, wallow in your woes no longer. I have found your solution. Allow me to introduce you to the Memphis Beard League.
The new and exciting brainchild of David Renfro and Brian Ellsworth, the Memphis Beard League is a start-up on a mission. Specifically, a mission to “unite the sheer awesomeness of beard-dom.”

David Renfro and Brian Ellsworth are the beaded brains behind the League.
To do this, they’re developing a line of merchandise and hosting a multitude of local events such as beard and ‘stache competitions. And because these bearded fellows are such nice guys, they’re even going to donate the proceeds to non-profits like Memphis Young Life, an organization devoted to getting kids going on the right path.
This mother and daughter are clearly not on the right path. 
Join Memphis Beard League on Facebook to share and compare facial hair with other enthusiasts, and to stay up to date on all the fuzzy going-ons in the 901.

In summary: more fuzz, more friends, more ladies, more fun. Toss your razor, invest in some plaid, and get yourself bearded.

Sami Harvey clearly drew that beard on her child's face with a magic marker or something. Sidenote: Your editor really likes his men bearded, so we all endorse this wholeheartedly.

Friday, March 22, 2013

Your Weekend In Music Includes Star & Micey

Seriously, folks. It's time to stop taking hometown heroes Star & Micey for granted (NOT THAT YOU WERE) but your Effin' Memphis reads all the big music blogs and websites and reads the tea leaves, and Star & Micey is getting really big, like, on a national level. This is a good time for you to go cheer them on and soak up their success with them.

Besides, the music they're making right now really kicks ass.

TONIGHT. 8 PM. 1884 LOUNGE @ MINGLEWOOD HALL.

Go!

If you haven't heard what they're doing lately, well, listen:




Seriously. Are you KIDDING me? Fucking fantastic.

Thursday, March 21, 2013

Rocking, romping, and not at all sucking

By Sami Harvey


Parents, now that Spring Break has come and gone, the inevitable is approaching: summer vacation. The weather is getting nicer, the days are getting longer, and it’s nearing the time when you have to leave the comfortable cocoon of home and venture into public with your kids again. Every year, it gets harder and harder to find new places that your kids can enjoy and that don’t totally suck for you.  The zoo gets so crowded, the museums never change, and Chuck E. Cheese has a one-beer max. Really, Chuck?! Come on. I need at least two beers before I’m any good at skee ball!

Enter: Rock and Romp.

If you don’t know about Rock-N-Romp, your family’s lives have seriously been lacking in good times. Since 2006, the fine folks at Memphis’ Rock-N-Romp have been organizing fun-for-the-family events, featuring live music at a kid-friendly volume, activities for the kiddos, snacks, and most importantly of all…beer. AND you can have more than one. For a $5 donation per grown up, your herd of children can frolic and dance to their hearts’ content while you spend the afternoon enjoying a couple of brews and listening to some good music. It can’t get any better than that, am I right?

The 2013 RNR season kicks off April 13 on Mud Island from 2-5. Confirmed musical guests include the Jeremy Shrader Hot Five, the Memphis Grizzlies Drum Line, Jeff Hulett’s One Man Band, and the Wuvbirds. Bluff City Brewers is in charge of beer, and Central BBQ and Tom’s Tiny Kitchen Pimento Cheese have oh-so-generously donated catering while supplies last. Don’t be a jerk––only go through the line once! People will notice and they will talk bad about you to their friends. You don’t be that guy.  …I digress. For more information about Rock-N-Romp, click here.

You should also be sure to check out the Rock-N-Romp Camp. Kids between 1st and 7th grade are invited to kick it with RNR the week of June 3 from 8:30-5:30 and then perform in a showcase after the camp finale. It’s only $200 a kid and it’ll give you a week long reprieve from your little angels. And who knows, maybe you’ll discover that your child is a musical prodigy who will make you millions!


2013 Rock-N-Romp schedule:

(All shows are from 2-5pm, most fall on Saturdays)

April 13: Mud Island
May 19 (Sunday): Rhodes College
June 3-7: camp at Rozelle Elementary
June 9: Camp showcase at Young Ave. Deli
August 10: Bridges
September 21: Corn Maze
November 2: Overton Park

Sami Harvey likes being a mom, and also she likes beer. Quite frankly this post will probably save at least eight young parents from accidentally succumbing to complete insanity. YOU'RE WELCOME, MEMPHIS.

Design and Development in 2013 Memphis: The "Get Wise to the Game" Guide for Haters

(photo by Lance Murphey)
This is the first in a series of posts that seek to start a discussion about where Memphis is in the year 2013, what we can do to make this place an amazing place to live in people's minds, and how best to get involved, give back and generally be a part of the solution, as opposed to complaining. Memphians from all fields and walks of life, who both love this city and understand the concept of thinking outside the box, will contribute in this space, and if you feel like you have something to say in your area of expertise, please get in touch at effinmemphis at gmail dot com. - Ed.

by Anna Ellis

Have you ever been in a restaurant, or maybe a house party, and you hear the phrase, “Memphis is just dead….or dying?" Haters. You can spot them so easily from this one small statement. In particular, I hear a lot of people talk about all the abandoned buildings around town; one of my friends on the Book of Faces has a virtual photo album dedicated to the sole purpose of documenting the economic devastation which has wreaked havoc on the commercial building industry in Memphis (i.e. mounds of abandoned buildings). These Negative Nancies love to point out what's wrong with the city, what is not going on, what we lack. This is me taking a stand. This is me saying, “Get wise to the new game, ya haters, you!”

I suppose, to lay out the parameters of the new game one must give a brief summary of the old game. And by “game” we are talking commercial/public development, by the way. So, the old game: a chaotic collage of developers and investors throwing together piecemeal business plans, finding spaces and building without the end user turn-over in mind. In other words, no consideration of wise urban planning. Urban planning has been around for centuries, with Florence being the first well planned urban development. Many cities, such as Paris, Lisbon and Chandigarh have employed urban planning techniques which promote civic engagement.

Memphis always has been a bit behind the curve, but that’s part of the charm, isn’t it? There was no entity at the founding of our city which fostered collaboration between the developer, government, end user and public. Until recently, the old game was stagnant and well ingrained into the practices of the building industry. But a few key elements have come into play within the past five to ten years which have made the old game out of date, and almost impossible to play. Around the late 1990’s, Memphians started that dreaded “first step": admitting there is a problem. Three key entities have been put into place since then, for the purpose of administratively steering the course of design in a new direction. Below are descriptions of the new-ishly appointed commissions, taken from the memphistn.gov website (which seems to be down this morning, which is not our problem. - Ed.):

  • “The Center City Development Corporation was chartered by the City of Memphis, Shelby County, and the State of Tennessee to promote redevelopment and combat the deterioration in the Central Business Improvement District (CBID). Additionally, the CCDC acts to expand employment opportunities, increase personal income, establish and finance business ventures, coordinate governmental planning, promote housing development, and promote the common good and general welfare of the Center City.”
  • “The Design Review Board serves to make recommendations regarding regulations with respect to signs and other public and private improvements within the Central Business Improvement District (CBID). The DRB is also charged with developing and implementing the CBID sign ordinance.” 
  • “On April 29, 1998, the Tennessee General Assembly enacted the Community Redevelopment Act of 1998. This enabling legislation gave Memphis and Shelby County the exclusive authority to establish a Community Redevelopment Agency with all of the powers necessary to plan, finance and implement major redevelopment projects. The Memphis and Shelby County Community Redevelopment Agency (CRA) was established by the Memphis City Council and Shelby County Board of Commissioners by in 2000. The CRA was established for the purpose of improving the quality of life through the prevention and elimination of slum and blight and providing affordable housing for low to moderate-income families within Memphis and Shelby County. The CRA is the only joint City and County entity authorized to finance and implement major redevelopment activities. The Memphis and Shelby County Division of Planning and Development serve as the Staff to the CRA Board of Directors, which is composed of seven members, appointed by the City and County Mayors.” 

These three administrative bodies seek to promote community collaboration with the developer. I have personally have sat through meetings at the Design Review Board in which the developer, the end user and members from the community “hashed it out”. The new goal is to give everyone a fair say, and to work together to come up with the very best possible outcome. This transparency and collaboration are just as contagious as the negativity in the past has been and this is the foundational slab of the "new game" for urban planning in Memphis. The new game is collaborative, communal and comprehensive. All over Memphis I see building projects in which this style of development was applied successfully. Below is a list of projects which have all played by the rules of the new game:

East Memphis

Midtown/Downtown

Not only were these projects designed, administered and built collaboratively, but the spaces themselves lend to more community collaboration. Many events at each of these spaces listed host free events for the community that in some way promote more community support and collaboration, which contribute to Memphians truly taking ownership of the city in which we all live, making life better for all of us.

To remember the new game, haters, stick with the three C’s. If it is Collaborative, if it’s Communal and if it is Comprehensive – it’s a product of the new game plan, and you should get involved. It sure beats posting pictures of abandoned buildings on Facebook.

Anna Ellis is a Memphis interior designer and finance guru of some sort. She makes really good roasted stuffed squash, or whatever that was a few weeks ago. I'm sure the recipe had a fancier name.